Women’s Divorce Podcast Playlist: Divorce Tips for Women Managing Custody, Kids, and Disney Dads
Let’s be honest—divorce isn’t just paperwork. It’s…
Watching your ex roll up in a new car while you’re calculating childcare costs.
Fielding guilt trips from your kids who just came back from a weekend of “yes to everything” parenting.
Wondering how to set boundaries without looking “difficult” in front of lawyers or the court.
Meanwhile, you’re the one holding the line: keeping routines steady, covering healthcare, paying for school supplies, and making sure your kids feel secure.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to carry this weight without support.
I’m Rhonda Noordyk, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and host of the Women’s Divorce Podcast, Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women. My mission is simple: to make sure women never leave money—or their voice—on the table.
Today, I’ve got a roundup of podcast episodes just for you. This playlist is all about custody, kids, and the exhausting antics of “Disney Dad.” I’ve curated a handy list of episodes that will give you the tools, stories, and strategies you need to:
✅ Advocate for yourself in custody negotiations
✅ Protect your kids from manipulation and financial control
✅ Stay grounded when the Disney Dad show gets loud
✅ Safeguard your finances while still showing up as the steady parent your kids can count on
Let’s dive in!
Women’s Divorce Podcast Playlist: Custody, Kids, and Disney Dads
Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #216: FAFSA Changes, Student Loans, and Scholarships for Divorced Families with Vicki Vollweiler
College planning is hard enough—but divorce makes it even messier. Instead of staying up late googling “scholarships my kid might qualify for” or panicking about how remarriage could tank financial aid, this episode gives you a clear roadmap.
Vicki Vollweiler breaks it all down:
Who files the FAFSA after recent changes (hint: it’s now the parent providing more financial support, not the custodial parent)
Which schools require financial info from both households
Smart scholarship strategies that actually save money (and what’s a total waste of time)
Why timing matters if remarriage is on the horizon
Vicki shows you what actually moves the needle—so you can stop wasting energy and start making smart, confident decisions for both your kids’ education and your own financial future.
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Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #212: Disney Dad Exposed: How to Protect Your Kids and Your Finances During Divorce [Solo Episode]
Do you find yourself constantly questioning your worth as a parent because your ex keeps rolling in with extravagant trips and shiny new gadgets for the kids? This episode peels back the curtain on the psychology behind Disney Dad behavior—and why it’s not really about the kids at all.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
How guilt, ego, and financial control fuel “fun parent” antics
The very real costs of staying silent in negotiations—including the 41% lifestyle drop women face post-divorce 📉
Practical steps to advocate for yourself, uncover hidden assets, and protect your future
How to flip the script and be the parent who brings both fun and stability—without draining your bank account
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📖 RELATED: Want a deeper dive on this dynamic? Check out my article, The Psychology of Disney Dad: Why Extravagance Isn’t About the Kids.
Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #205: Fighting Smart—Legal Abuse, Coercive Control & Winning on Your Terms with Lisa Johnson
What happens when your ex weaponizes the legal system against you? Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out, joins me to talk about legal abuse and coercive control
Here’s what we unpack:
What legal abuse looks like (and why naming it matters)
How Jennifer’s Law is shifting the landscape for survivors
The 3 pillars of airtight documentation
How to find attorneys who actually get trauma-informed litigation
Why therapy clauses and parenting plan details can protect you long-term
If you’ve felt like the courtroom is stacked against you, this episode gives you practical strategy—and solidarity.
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Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #190: Putting Your Child’s Needs First During Divorce with Cathy Himlin
Courts like to say they’re acting “in the best interests of the child”—but anyone who’s been through custody litigation knows it doesn’t always play out that way. In this conversation with Family and Marriage Therapist (and court officer) Cathy Himlin, we unpack how divorce shifts your parenting role, and why financial motives or court structures can sometimes work against kids’ actual needs.
Here’s what we cover:
Why developmental stages matter when creating parenting plans
The difference between genuine parental alienation and weaponized accusations
How to keep court battles from overshadowing your relationship with your child
What it looks like to truly center your kids in custody arrangements
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📖 RELATED: If you’re facing a high-conflict ex, you’ll definitely want to read this article: Divorcing a Narcissist: How to Flip the Script on Disney Dads and Create Joy for Your Kids. It breaks down how over-the-top parenting is less about generosity and more about control—and how you can respond strategically.
Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #191: Does Your Adult Child Need a Power of Attorney? with Ashley Lillesand
Your child turns 18 and suddenly—even though they’re still living at home—you lose the legal ability to make medical or financial decisions for them. In this episode, Estate Planning Attorney Ashley Lillesand (joined by my own 18-year-old daughter, Jenna!) explains why every parent of adult children needs to think about Power of Attorney documents—especially during or after divorce.
You’ll learn:
What a Power of Attorney actually does (and why it matters at 18, not 28)
How to choose the right person for medical and financial decisions
Why divorcing parents need these protections more than ever
How to normalize these conversations so your kids aren’t blindsided in an emergency
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Women’s Divorce Podcast Episode #177: Divorce Tips for Physician Wives—Breaking Down Compensation and Income with Attorney Michael Johnson
If your spouse is a physician—or in any career with complicated pay packages—this episode is for you. Attorney Michael Johnson walks us through how to break down the maze of physician compensation.
Different types of physician employment and what they mean for income
How to follow the money and uncover hidden compensation
Why knowing your value as the spouse matters during divorce negotiations
Practical ways to make sure you’re not leaving money on the table
Think of This Playlist as Your Custody Survival Kit
These episodes aren’t rooted in “theory.” They’re about real-world, proven strategies you can use in the middle of messy text chains, lawyer negotiations, and kid drop-offs where the tension could be cut with a knife.
🎧 Add them to your playlist.
💡 Take notes you can bring into mediation or court.
✊ Use them as proof that you are allowed to ask questions, push back, and expect fairness—because silence is exactly what your ex is counting on.
📌 Your Next Step: Protect Yourself and Your Kids
You’ve worked too hard to let Disney Dad antics or custody chaos derail your future. These podcast episodes are your starting point—but don’t stop there.
That’s why I created my FREE mini-course: 6 Proven Steps to Advocate for a Fair Financial Divorce Settlement.
Inside, you’ll learn:
The biggest financial pitfalls in custody + divorce (and how to avoid them)
How to protect your assets without sacrificing your kids’ stability
The exact method I’ve used to move $25 million into the hands of my clients
🎥 Get instant access to my free mini-course HERE! Because advocacy isn’t just about surviving divorce—it’s about setting you and your kids up for the secure, empowered future you both deserve.
Stay Tuned
I’ll be sharing more empowering content on the Podcast that helps you navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and zero apology.
I’m Rhonda Noordyk, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, and I’m firmly in your corner. See you next time! 💛